WHO ARE YOU SPIRITUALLY? THE NEED FOR SPIRITUAL PESONALITY DIAGNOSES IN MARRIAGE & ORS
er voice trailed-off and eerily faint on the line. I was taken aback as if she was in harm's way and then she said: "I'll call you back Dr because he's back now?" in sotto voce. "Has he always been like this since you married, or this behavior just started?" I asked rather concernedly. "No sir, he's just started. He doesn't even allow the children play outside with anyone and any time I talk to a man of God on the phone, he's pissed off even though he's a pastor. He's pulling up at the garage now. I'll call you back sir." That was our last line conversation. I knew she was lying that it was a new pick-up behavioral personality. Character is like a flame, it can be spotted very early by the most discerning. The sister's husband has been like that from the beginning, but she didn't notice. I could only pray for her because since that eerie conversation she didn't honor her words; she hasn't called again. Sister Helen's case was a bit different. She was elated when she called from New England. The Lord God Almighty had answered our prayers together for a husband. The three men that had proposed were all pastors and men of God and she wanted to pick one of them when she called. I told her to call back seven days later. She did and I told her none of the three men of God was spiritually-compatible with her. She was flummoxed. How cam three pastors not spiritually compatible with me? She asked. I told her the Holy Spirit doesn't lie. Simply because a man is a born-again Christian like you and even a pastor doesn't mean that is your husband. Of course, it took much knowledge of the word for her to be convinced and three months later, she met a born-again Christian who is not a pastor, but a believer who is spiritually compatible with Sister Helen and they're serving the Lord now and raising a family.
Sister Benedicta went to Africa on vacation and met a sweet and loving born-again man in a local church she worshipped. One thing led to the other and the relationship took a positive dimension and in three months, the brother proposed. When Sister Benedicta returned to her base in the EU, the relationship went supersonic and she was convinced that was her man and decided to file the necessary immigration papers for the brother. But on a cue from the Holy Spirit, one of my Christian daughters-they are many all over the world-told her to talk to us here at The Jesus Christ Solution Center. She did and we told her to wait a bit longer before filing for the man as the man she told us was not spiritually compatible with her. "He's a born-again Christian sir, he isn't an unbeliever," Sister Benedicta emphasized. Again, not all born-again Christian brothers and sisters are compatible with one another. She obeyed the Holy Spirit instruction as we told her something would happen that would open her eyes to what we told her. Well, the sweet and born-again Christian Brother went to visit one of his friends in another town to break the news of his intention to travel abroad to join Sister Benedicta. His friend asked him about another Christian sister he was planning to marry. He told his friend the truth; he only wanted to use Sister Benedicta to settle in the EU and once he regularizes his stay, he'll send for his original "wife." His friend told his own fiancée who knew Sister Benedicta's younger sister in the United States and since news traveled very fast these days, the younger sister was the one who told Benedicta the secret of our charming and sweet prince born-again Christian. Sister Benedicta got the message. When Sister Bola called us on the phone, she was a wreck. She had been married for nearly ten years, but her husband could not accomplish anything financially. They're into real estate business, they are making money but somehow they couldn't account for the profits. "Dr, I'm tired, we pay our tithes, we give to the poor but somehow, we can't account for anything tangible in our financial state," She agonized over the phone. "I know something is wrong somewhere, but I can't placed my hands on that thing. We've prayed, fasted, did night vigils, nothing is happening. What's going on?" That your spouse is a born-again Christian doesn't mean you're spiritually compatible. That a born-again Christian has proposed to you doesn't mean you're building your marriage on sound Christian foundation. Ananias and Sapphira were born-again Christians (Acts 5:1-11), but they both lied to the Holy Spirit and died. The lying couples had congruent spiritual personality genes which led to their deaths. Priscilla and Aquila had positive spiritual personality genes and that was the reason they did exploits for the Lord (Acts 18:1-19, Romans 16:3). The list goes on.
It is amazing how prospective suitors harp on blood genotype, marriage counseling, financial status, educational qualification, physical attraction, job security and the rest but often neglect the most important of all when planning marriage: spiritual personality compatibility diagnosis. As we disclosed in our last article last year here in this column, we're praying to the Lord God Almighty this year to use The Jesus Christ Solution Center to connect 1,000 Born Again Christian sisters with their Born-Again Christian Brethren as Husbands and Wives this year 2018 in the Mighty Name of Jesus. That is why Dr Margie Neal-Fayemiwo and I have collaborated to be used as usual with other books by the Holy Spirit to write our brand new book titled:
How To Get Your God-Given Husband The Bible Way in 12 Months: 12 Prayer Points and What To Do Each Month From First to Twelfth Month: (ISBN: 978-1-63492-931-8, Published February 2018). Many born-again Christian Sisters haven't been taught the need to undergo spiritual personality compatibility diagnoses before venturing into marriage, but only schooled in the Biblical injunction in Do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever," and so run with that scripture. In other words, the prevailing mindset is, if a person says he's a born-again Christian and is not a non-Christian, and then we can build a home together. Abigail was a virtuous woman but in a bad relationship with Nabal, her husband who, tough a millionaire, but a fool (I Samuel 25). Solomon, though the wisest man who ever lived, but a thoroughly polygamous man who took sexual excesses to the extreme and broke many women's hearts (I Kings 11:3). If the women married to these men had conducted spiritual personality compatibility diagnoses of themselves first to know whom they were, then they would not have gotten involved with these bad husbands. It is possible to be a true man of God, indwelled with the Holy Spirit and be used by Him and yet be a bad husband and a failed father. That you're married to a pastor, an evangelist, gospel singer, prayer intercessor, a deacon, reverend etc doesn't guarantee a fulfilled and God-centered marital life, if the two of you have different spiritual personalities, even though born-again.
What is the meaning of Spiritual Compatibility? No two human beings are the same on earth; even twins have different spiritual personality genes. There is no one like you on this earth and there won't be anyone like you. This is spiritually true. "A God-given husband is a man somewhere in your part of the world or another area of the world created by the True Lord God Almighty with a purpose and a spiritual assignment on earth ad given certain spiritual qualities to use to achieve that divine purpose and mission on earth and will not be able to fulfill that divine mission without you-the woman-also created by the Lord God Almighty with similar earthly mission and spiritual qualities" (Page 113). Marriage as designed by the True Lord God Almighty is not a unification of two fleshly skins/bodies; spiritual marriage between two born-again Christian brothers and sisters are indeed the unification of two souls. The expression: "I have met my soul mate," wasn't invented by the secular world; it was taken from the Holy Bible: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.(Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:7). Since Adam and Eve had no father and mother, the True Lord God Almighty was laying a generic case and template for the institution of marriage for the human race.
Sister A. was called into pastoral ministry by the Lord God Almighty. She heard the Voice of the Holy Spirit on her calling and went straight in answering the call without any prevarication. The Lord showed His Hands in her ministry, but there was a snag; she had a kid out of wedlock before she turned her life around and her parishioners began to feel uneasy about her single life. She needed a man as a spiritual "back up" which was legitimate, but the man who came into her life wasn't spiritually-compatible with her. Mr. K was also a born-again Christian and when he came into Sister B's life, he knew the calling of the Holy Spirit on his wife's life, but he couldn't handle it. He was so spiritually insecure and a replica of Nabal. The relationship eventually floundered.
For you to know whether a particular Christian Brother is spiritually compatible with you, you must first know your own spiritual personality. Every human being on this heart is first and foremost a spiritual personality. There are 12 types of spiritual personality beings revealed in the Holy Bible. Just as each and every one of us has a distinct and unique DNA which cannot be copied, so also every human being that the True Lord God Almighty has created and will ever create on this planet earth for His Glory is created with a unique spiritual personality. The Lord God Almighty told Jeremiah 1:4-5: "The word of the LORD came to me, saying, "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart;…" In Psalm 139: 13-14a, King David said through the Holy Spirit: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;…" Before any human being is formed in his/her mother's womb, just as the potter sits down to use clay to make pottery, there are certain things the potter does which the clay has no idea until it becomes a piece of pottery. Similarly, there are 12things that have been determined by the Great Potter-the Lord God Almighty -which are essential ingredients of your personality which we revealed in this Holy Spirit book. You must diagnose yourself spiritually first to know who you are spiritually. While our Lord Jesus Christ declared to Nicodemus in John 3:7: "Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit" Apostle Paul disclosed in Galatians 1:15 : "But when he who had set me apart before I was born, and who called me by his grace,…"
Just as we resemble and reflect the physical characteristics or physiognomy of our biological parents; similarly, individually we also resemble and reflect the spirit that inhabits us. That was the point that our Lord Jesus Christ was making when He told the Pharisees and Sadducees who opposed Him that they were about to do the biddings of their Father, Satan in John 8:44: "You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies." The Devil didn't sleep with their mothers to sire those Jews, but Satan's spirit indwelled in them. Now, it is possible for us to be born-again Christians, Holy Spirit-filled and be worshipping the Lord together which makes us brethren. But when we now proceed to the level of marriage; that is, husband and wife of the same spirit, we're spiritually different and if our spiritual personalities are poles apart, we cannot be husband and wife. There are many examples in the Word of Life in this regard. Do you remember what happened to Achan in Joshua 8:1-24? Do you ever ask why the Lord God Almighty allowed the Israelites to stone Achan and his entire family to death for his sin? His wife consented to his theft. The same as Ananias and Sapphira alluded to earlier on.
Why did Pa Abraham and Hagar split and God allowed Mama Sarah to prevail when she insisted that Hagar and her child, Ishmael be cast out? It was more than mere matrimonial squabbles and jealousy. The Lord God Almighty told Abraham in Genesis 21:11-12: "The matter distressed Abraham greatly because it concerned his son. But God said to him, "Do not be so distressed about the boy and your slave woman. Listen to whatever Sarah tells you, because it is through Isaac that your offspring will be reckoned." Papa Abraham and Hagar were spiritually incompatible. It wasn't because Hagar was an Egyptian or a maid, but as the Holy Spirit opened the eyes of Apostle Paul thousands of years later in Galatians 4:21-29: "Tell me, you who want to be under the law, are you not aware of what the law says? For it is written that Abraham had two sons, one by the slave woman and the other by the free woman. His son by the slave woman was born according to the flesh, but his son by the free woman was born as the result of a divine promise. These things are being taken figuratively: The women represent two covenants. One covenant is from Mount Sinai and bears children who are to be slaves: This is Hagar. Now Hagar stands for Mount Sinai in Arabia and corresponds to the present city of Jerusalem, because she is in slavery with her children. But the Jerusalem that is above is free, and she is our mother. For it is written: "Be glad, barren woman, you who never bore a child; shout for joy and cry aloud, you who were never in labor; because more are the children of the desolate woman than of her who has a husband." Now you, brothers and sisters, like Isaac, are children of promise. At that time the son born according to the flesh persecuted the son born by the power of the Spirit. It is the same now."
Please pay particular attention to that last verse where Paul mentioned power of the Spirit. The fact of the matter is that, marriage is more than just joining of flesh but of the spirit as aforementioned; so it is important to undergo spiritual personality diagnosis first so you can know your spiritual personality then it will be easier for you to identify the particular born again Christian Brother spiritually compatible with you. A born-again Christian brother called us here at The Jesus Christ Solution Center, TX, from one of the Asian countries for counseling. His wife of nearly ten years hasn't given birth and he was becoming worried. He wanted to know what happened. Unbeknown to him, he was the one having the problem spiritually and not the wife. It wasn't physical; they love each other but the brother isn't spiritually compatible with the sister and yet they're married. Since the Holy Spirit said we shouldn't divorce, how can it be done that they would be spiritually compatible? We have to go back to the spiritual drawing board. You see, in the things of the Holy Spirit, what we are ignorant of can harm us, even though you're innocent. If the couples had done their spiritual personality diagnostic tests while they were courting and dating, they would have discovered the problems that the Holy Spirit disclosed ten years later and be done with it rather than being oppressed by the devil unnecessarily. Knowing your spiritual personality type doesn't mean you cannot marry across spiritual personality types; but what it means is that you can take that into consideration when you're planning to settle down?
Many Christian marriages have irretrievably broken down not because the couples didn't love each other physically, but because of certain issues bedeviling the marriages which prayers, marriage counseling, therapies, night vigils, etc cannot save. Why all of a sudden after an elaborate marriage and honeymoon suddenly your Christian life as a sister is in shambles? Why is it that after you settled down to your supposed born-again Christian husband, your business and financial life began to crumble before your very eyes and you can't explain what is going on? Why after your marriage, whatever could go wrong with your life begins to unravel and you pray, pray and pray and nothing happens? Like the Christian Brother in Asia, why did he peremptorily conclude that it was his wife that something was wrong with instead of him for a decade of bareness after marriage? " Dr, everything was going on fine until our marriage, and I can't understand what's wrong?"" I hear it all the time from born-again, Holy Spirit-filled and genuine Christian Sisters. Not every spiritual problem is caused by the usual suspects: Satan, demons, witches and wizards. Don't get me wrong; these spiritual foes contribute a lot to human woes, but ignorance is the foremost ailment afflicting the Christian community today. No wonder, the Good Lord says it all: "My people-born again Christians-are destroyed from lack of knowledge." (Hosea 4:6).
"Jesus replied, "You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God" (Matthew 22:29).
These and many more are what the Holy Spirit revealed to us in this book. It has just been released into the market by our publishers. It is offered for sale at the open market for $29.99 but we're offering this book for a limited time this year to 1,000 Christian Sisters for just $26.99 per copy including Shipping and Handling. When we advertised its advanced copy towards the tail end of last year, we didn't want to make it available to the general public but only to our members. But we received email and telephone calls from precious souls that we shouldn't limit such precious marriage tool to just a limited number of people. So here we are, write you cheque/check, money order etc to The Jesus Christ Solution Center for your copy.
NOW OUT AT LAST! THE MUCH AWAITED MARRIAGE TOOL FOR 1,000 CHRISTIAN BRIDES AND BRIDEGROOMS 2018
The much-awaited book: "How To Get Your God-Given Husband The Bible Way in 12 Months: 12 Prayer Points and What To Do Each Month From First to Twelfth Month: (ISBN: 978-1-63492-931-8, Published February 2018) is out. It is now available through our Florida-based publishers in retail outlets across the world, including Amazon, Barnes & Noble and reputable bookstores where good books are sold. The cover price is $29.99 excluding Shipping and Handling and other associated fees such as sales tax etc. From our own end here and exclusively for our readers, we're offering this book for only $26.99 flat rate including S & H no sales tax.
For those precious souls that have already pre-paid, please look forward to receiving your paid copy in the mail in the next few days. For those desirous of laying their hands on this book, either for your own edification, for your daughter/son, a friend or neighbor or any person you love or for personal knowledge, you can purchase directly from us. This Holy Spirit-filled book is not meant only for single Christians; Christian couples who are having issues, unexplained and perplexing seesaws in their marriages can also benefit from reading this book and what they can do spiritually to calm the matrimonial tempest. Send checque/check, money order or pay by credit/debit card for only $26.99 to:- The Jesus Christ Solution Center, Jesus Christ House, 410 W. 4th Street, Cameron, TX 76520. Write: Offer Feb, 2018 on your check /money order etc for this book title. You can also call 1-254-605-4035 or Text: Offer Feb, 2018 to: 1- 254-563-3856 or email: [email protected]
READERS' LETTERS THIS WEEK
Hello sir. My name is Mariz and I am writing from The Philippines. I bought your book: "The Kingdom of Satan Exposed: Activities of Principalities and Demon Worship in our World - Inside The World of Witchcraft, Voodoo, Warlocks and Spiritual Warfare." The book is long and voluminous with rare disclosures and I am currently able to read 67% of the book, which I enjoy. I was a former Roman Catholic member but now I am currently attending the worship services of Faith Baptist Church in my hometown. I have already accepted the Lord Jesus Christ in my heart, but I have not been baptized by water. I know it is necessary to be baptized but the church I am currently attending is not . Thanks sir----Ms Mariz Rowena, Tagum City, Davao del Norte, The Philippines.
Thank you Sister Mariz for dropping a line. I want to thank the Lord God Almighty for bringing the expose He commissioned us to tell the world about Satan and his operations on earth and commend your patience in reading the book. Now about water baptism, it is not compulsory although desirable for you as a saved soul in the Lord Jesus Christ. What you need now that you have accepted my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ as your lord and savior too is the Holy Spirit. You need the Holy Spirit in your life so you can experience your salvation and be called a truly regenerated and born-again Christian. It shall be well and I will not fail to be praying for you as a member of God's Family. Remain blessed always and till the Second Coming of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, Amen.
Hello Dr. Fayemiwo. Greetings. I said I should update you so far. By God's grace I'm taking an offer as I told you in my last mail. I'm still waiting for the other main offer, believing the manifestation of God's promise regarding it. Unfortunately the other tenant didn't show up for the basement. I need a counsel regarding the vow I made about my job. Should I redeem it now based on the temporary job I'm doing now or wait until the main one manifests? The reason why I'm asking is that I vowed that I will do something when I start working, but I don't know if to do it now (though it's not my career) or wait till I return to my career. Thanks and God bless.---From Brother O.A. Toronto Canada.
Vows are very important and the True Lord God Almighty views it seriously. It is the only thing in the entire Bible that forced a man to sacrifice a human being to the Jehovah Yaweh because the man used his on mouth to make the vow to the Lord and He told him he could not change and withdraw that vow. Read the whole of Judges 11:1-40. The Lord God Almighty equates a vow-breaker to a fool; "When you make a vow to God, do not delay to fulfill it. He has no pleasure in fools; fulfill your vow" (Ecclesiastes 5:4). Fulfill you vow (s) now my brother. It shall be well with you in Jesus Name, Amen.