THE CHRISTIAN WALK

Moshood FayemiwoFriday, March 16, 2018
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Cameron, Texas, USA

7 BIBLICAL LAWS FOR SETTLING DOWN TO YOUR GOD-GIVEN HUSBAND

atan set up the current worldly arrangement as a counterpoise to the original Plan of the True Lord God Almighty aftermath of the disobedience of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. The True Lord God Almighty doesn't rule the world, but rules the earth. That was the reason our Lord Jesus Christ told us His worshippers and children:- "My kingdom is not of this world," (John 18:36). If you're a genuine daughter of the Most High God and you've given your life to the Lord Jesus Christ, you're redeemed and have the indwelled Holy Spirit in you, but somehow, you find it difficult to settle down to your God-given husband, here below are seven spiritual laws you can tap into this year to change your status. Yes, you can settle down to blissful marital life this year, if you seek knowledge of the Word of Life and drink from the spiritual anointing of those the Holy Spirit has genuinely called.

The Spiritual Law of Uniqueness in Marriage is the first law a born-again sister should use in settling down to her God-given husband. If you cannot take an inventory of what is unique about you, what sets you apart from other ladies that a man cannot fail to notice, then something is wrong with you. It means you do not know who you are in Christ Jesus. There is a talent, a hidden treasure that the Creator has given you that you can leverage on and use to settle down to your God-given husband. Kindness, love, trust, empathy, prayerfulness, fasting, gospel music, art and spiritual entertainment, encouragement, love for the elderly, kindness to cater to orphans, love for animals, help to the handicapped and physically-challenged, help to the poor, empathy to the widows etc are unique talents and God-given gifts you must discover in you and leverage it for settling down. There is no one like you on earth and there will be anyone like you, this is the truth. A Christian sister came to us and complained ad nauseam about her inability to settle down to her God-given husband. We put her through our spiritual personality analytic matrixes here at The Jesus Christ Solution Center, TX USA. From her feedback, one of her natural gifts stood out; this Christian sister loves taking care of animals and that is her passion. But all along she has been moving from one church to the other looking for her God-given husband so we told her she was looking in the wrong place. Go and join ASPCA: American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. Join all organizations and register in all shelter houses for women in her town and she would find her God-given husband there who is also a born-again Christian. Peter and the apostles had been fishing all day, but couldn't catch anything in John 21. Then the Lord Jesus Christ showed up and told them in Verse 6: "He said, "Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some." When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish." Initially when I told the Christian Sister to join ASPCA, she retorted that there may not be a born-again Christian brother there, and the Holy Spirit said I should tell her that she should change her prayer line and the new prayer line she should pray and not the earlier one she had been praying which was amiss (James 4:3). See Eliezer's modest prayer in Gen. 24:10-31). She is now happily married to a real born-again brother who shares her passion, although not a pastor. Every sister is looking for a pastor, an evangelist, deacon, reverend, etc and we tell them that is not how it works. Seek help, open your spiritual eyes and chew these words from the Lord God on High: "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts" (Isaiah 55:8-9).

The Law of Two and Companionship is the second law of marital direction. No human being is entitled to anything from the Lord God Almighty who doesn't seek and earnestly ask for it. As the Creator sets up His system over the human race, He is not moved by our needs, but our faith, because as Hebrews 11:6a made it plain to us: "Without faith, it is impossible to please God…" Nothing moves the Lord to stretch His Hands unto our situations and circumstances on earth than our faith in Him; not even our cries, weeping, pains, complaints etc. The moment you are bitter and are whining and complaining of your singleness and because you haven't sought assistance and spiritual knowledge from those more anointed than you and then conclude that the Lord God Almighty doesn't want you to settle down, you will never settle down. We asked a Christian sister visiting us here at The Jesus Christ Solution Center why she had stopped searching for her Mr. Right and she blurted out bitterly: "I don't think the Lord wants me to settle down with any brother in any marriage, because marriage isn't for me. I 'm married to my ministry." Much later, she called over the phone asking; "Can I try the spiritual personality analytical matrixes you spoke about?" I replied, what was the need since she said God didn't want her to settle down with any Christian brother and her ministry was her husband. She laughed and replied she wanted to try it. I reminded her she was being disobedient to the Lord and she burst into loud laughter.

If you have searched and searched throughout your life for your God-given husband and nothing is working, don't give up and don't be exasperated. Seek help, search for those with higher anointing, change your modus operandi and remember the spiritual law of two. That was why the Creator gave Eve to Adam, the Lord instructed Noah to preserve every living thing two-by-two preparatory to the Deluge, the Creator created every living organism male and female (Gen. 1:27), our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ sent the apostles out two-by-two (Mark 6:7; Luke 10:1). Ruth couldn't marry Boaz without Naomi; Esther couldn't come on top and became the queen without Mordecai and Rebekah was connected with Isaac through Eliezer etc -Don't pretend you can live without a man and stop deceiving yourself that the Holy Spirit has told you to remain single for His ministry. Singleness is not a pre-existing condition for being called to the ministry. Seek help!, divine help and drink from the fountain of more spiritually-anointed men and women of God with deeper knowledge and divine direction.

Honor marriage and the institution of marital relationship. Honor is different from respect; it's possible to respect a person or something, but not honor the person or thing. The moment you conclude in your heart and continue to behave in words and actions that you can live on this earth without something, you have dishonored that something. Solomon honored his father, while Adonijah dishonored King David and made himself king without authority. You know the end of his earthly journey. A sister in Florida was always abusing her husband; she would talk anyhow to her husband, treat the husband like shit and behaved as if she could live without a husband. I warned her that she was flouting the commandment of our Lord God Almighty in Hebrews 13:4a: "Marriage should be honored by all…" but she ignored me. "When I leave him" -referring to her husband-"I'm going to marry a medical doctor," she boasted. Then the husband filed for divorce and deserted her. The sister began to cry. She thought it was that easy to see a medical doctor to marry, but the sister has been looking for a man to re-marry for the past 12 years. She re-married briefly for two years, but that marriage didn't work out as the husband deserted her as the first one. The sister used her own hands to destroy her marriage and the Holy Bible refers to such women as fools. According to Proverbs 14:1: "The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down." The Lord God Almighty will never answer your prayer for a spouse-husband-if you do not honor marriage as an institution. It is both a commandment and a law, fulfill and obey it, period!

The spiritual law of mind control. Your mind and how it is deployed will either make or mar your life like your marriage and appreciation of the marriage institution. The spiritual warfare between God and Satan, Good and Evil and the slugfest raging between the forces of Light and darkness over your inability to settle down since all these years are both direct and indirect functions of your mind. No wonder, the Word of God says: "For as he (and she too) thinks in his or her) heart, so is he (she)" (Proverbs 23:7). The human mind is like a fortress that Satan and his demons want to seize and control for their use, and if you allow them, they would mess up your thought process. A sister was offered an advice by her girl friend to consult a psychic online about her relationship and the naïve sister agreed and did. Later, the sister did a follow up by visiting the demonic agent in California, because she was wowed by the accuracy of the psychic's prediction on her love life. One thing led to the other that the psychic told the sister to bring the man-her fiancé- she was inquiring over-her fiancé-for prayer. Unbeknown to the sister, the psychic herself was looking for a husband and so she gave the sister and fiancée something to use and with time, the fiancée began to see the psychic in his dream. The power of the mind is humungous and it is the battlefield of spiritual warfare, so to have an edge, the psychic messed up the minds of the sister and her fiancée. In no time, the sister's fiancé left her and married the psychic and they're still together. The brother earnestly and sincerely believed he was destined to marry that psychic. How do you control your mind as a Christian sister looking for your God-given husband? Read Romans 12: 2 and do what the Lord instructed us-born-again Christians- to do with our minds, period!

The spiritual law of recognition is the fifth law of marriage and settling down. What you do not inquire of and recognize its use and importance is hurting you. Scan your environment, look around and pay attention to what you had hitherto ignored. Sister Marie left her Jamaican nation for the Unite States almost thirty years ago and she hasn't visited the isthmus since she moved to the United States. She has become successful in the pursuit of the American Dream, but she hasn't married and was becoming exasperated. A friend told her to attend a re-union of their institution in New England and who did she run into at the re-union: an old classmate of hers in Jamaica who had had a crush on her from their school days? He too had re-located to the United States, and successful too, but was involved in a relationship that didn't work and ended in divorce. They re-connected and are now married. The Lord God Almighty doesn't work the way we human work, because He is the Lord and is Sovereign. A sister works three jobs and uses her off-days to sleep all the time and yet she's complaining that God doesn't give her a husband. During our discussions on the phone, I was compelled to blurt out: "Who will ask you out when you don't have a life?" I shouted at her over the phone exasperatedly. When everything cooled down, I painstakingly lectured her from the Word of Life on how spiritual matters work. I told her if she didn't put relationship first, she should not expect the Holy Spirit to bring a husband to her.

The Lord God Almighty created places before He created creatures and human beings. Where you are matters more than whom you are. It is possible to be endowed with great talents and gifts but be living in a place where those gifts and talents cannot blossom. That was the reason our Lord Jesus Christ moved from Nazareth to Zebulon and Naphtali. My wife and I entered a sister's house and as we settled down to spiritual matters, my eyes went to a figurine souvenir in her living room. I was drawn to it and the scripture in Deuteronomy 7:26 came to my mind: "Do not bring a detestable thing into your house or you, like it, will be set apart for destruction. Regard it as vile and utterly detest it, for it is set apart for destruction." I looked at the sister and asked where she got that figurine object from and she replied she was given as a gift when she went on vacation in the Islands here in South America. "Do you what this is?"I asked her. She replied that she thought it was a good decoration and cute so she put it in her living room. I had to explain to her through the discernment of the Holy Spirit that any room or house that object is put cannot know true peace and love. She has been having series of broken relationships and unable to settle down because there is a demonic attachment to the so-called souvenir. She couldn't believe her eyes. What you do not recognize can either benefit or harm you. The answer to some of your problems may not be far off. This is very important. The law of territorial conquest is very important in all matters of life. It is the promise and one of the blessings of the Lord God Almighty that we should dominate our environment and where we live spiritually. As He promised: "I will give you every place where you set your foot, as I promised Moses" (Joshua 1:3). When we lived in Chicago, in spite of all the gangland activities and spate of drive-by shootings commonplace in South Side, break-ins and all the rest, never for one in nearly ten years did our house ever experience untoward event. I told my wife to relax; we would only hear, read about and watch calamities afar, but never would evil occur in our ambience.

A true man or woman of God should thoroughly dominate his or her environment. Here in beautiful Cameron, TX, people, pedestrians, tourists and passers-by gawk at our mansion, point and gossip at that White House wondering who owns such dwelling known as The Jesus Christ Solution Center. Hallelujah! If you live in a house either owned or rented and somehow your blessings are being hindered and somehow, you can figure out what is happening, you need to check the history of that house, neighborhood, town or city. You are not meant to succeed just anywhere. Your husband is waiting for you in that place the Lord God Almighty has destined for you. That was why Rebekah left Paddan Aram for Gerar to marry Isaac, Ruth left Moab for Bethlehem where Boaz, her future husband was waiting for her, Esther moved to where her beauty could be appreciated and she became a queen who the Lord God Almighty used to save a nation. We prayed with a sister living in New York and we're led to tell her to relocate. She obeyed and in six months she met her God-given husband. You're not meant for some places; find out where the Lord God Almighty wants to use you and that place of your spiritual assignment is where your husband is waiting for you to join hands with you to fulfill your divine calling.

Finally, nothing leaves the heaven until something leaves the earth. For the Lord to reciprocate and answer our requests, we must connect with Him through faith. Just as He said: "…because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him" (Hebrews 11:6b). Anything you want from the Lord; if you can do that thing for your fellow human being, the Lord will release what is in His Hand to you. His words are His honor and guarantee so when He said, "Do to others as you would have them do to you" (Luke 6:31), if you obey Him through His words, you'll receive the benefit of obedience. That was what Sister K. did when the Lord God Almighty instructed us to tell her to sow a seed. She thought we're asking for money, but we explained to her she should sponsor the wedding of her younger sister's daughter and watch what the Lord would do in her prayer for her God-given husband. She was taken aback. "Dr, I myself I'm looking for a husband!"She protested. We gave her 12months, if she obeyed the Voice of the Holy Spirit and at the wedding of her niece which she finally accepted to sponsor, there she met a man who initiated a relationship and they became husband and wife in 365 days. What you make happen for others, the Lord will make happen for you, Hallelujah!

LETTERS THIS WEEK

Greetings Dr Fayemiwo, As your Nigeriaworld column has immense reach and coverage and you are well respected, I am hoping you will consider writing an article on the dangerous trend that is seemingly spreading like wild fire among some Africans (and African Americans), that is, blindly supporting, embracing, and even glorifying witchcraft/the occult that is being fed through bestselling movies and books such as Black Panther and A Wrinkle in Time on the one hand and Children of Blood and Bone on the other. I have not watched the first two movies or read the last book, because I have absolutely no desire to do so, based on author/actor interviews and advertisements; I find this kind of material highly disturbing. Yet, as a Nigerian currently living in America, it is amazing how Nigerian friends, even professing Christians, are excited and awed by these productions all in the name of celebrating Black entrepreneurship and technical and literary accomplishment. I hope I am not making a mountain out of a mole hill and would very much like to read your thoughts on this issue some time. Please keep up the good work. Remain blessed in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen---Ms BP, via email.

Sister B.P. I agree with you absolutely. Often times, we born-again Christians are carried away by racial pride and Black nationalism that we cross the spiritual line in dissecting secular arts and entertainment with subtle Satanic intent and demonic output. There is element of witchcraft in the "Black Panthers." My wife and I discussed extensively on this spiritual fact yesterday after I received your email. Thanks my sister and remain blessed in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.


*Ms Disla is originally from Dominica Republic but lives in NY, USA

Dear Dr Fayemiwo, This is to inform you how your books are changing lives, especially the one titled: "The Kingdom of Satan Exposed: This book has been a great blessing to me. It helped me to fully understand my life and events that took place in my life in the past ad why God allowed those events to occur. May the Almighty God continue to bless you with His wisdom in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.---Ms. Zoila Disla, case manager, The Salvation Army, New Jersey, NJ, USA but lives in Manhattan, NY USA

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