HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE DEMON-INFESTED AND A CHEATING BORN-AGAIN SPOUSE?
he world's bawdy and nauseating news headlines will make you throw up: "Three men gang raped One- Year Old," "Father and Step- Brother Turn 12-Year Old Sister to Sex- Toy," "Man Has Sex with Mother for Money Rituals," "62-Year Old Woman Marries 8-Year Old Kid," " Boy Caught Having Sex with A Goat," " Islamic Cleric Says It's Good to Marry A 12- Year Old Once She Can Menstruate," "Pastor Says, Being Homosexual Is Gift from God," etc. Add these to the avalanche of sex and pornographic videos on the Internet that numb people to moral unconsciousness, you begin to wonder what in the world is going on? The Rabelaisian globe and risqué world of today are a throwback to the first world destroyed by the Lord God Almighty in the Deluge. The Creator rued thus in Genesis 6: 5-7: "The LORD saw how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time. The LORD regretted that he had made human beings on the earth, and his heart was deeply troubled. So the LORD said, "I will wipe from the face of the earth the human race I have created-and with them the animals, the birds and the creatures that move along the ground-for I regret that I have made them." The greatest evil of that evil generation was sexual immorality and all associated deviant behaviors introduced by Satan and his fallen angels to destroy the human race. Again, the judgement of the Sovereign Lord God Almighty descended swiftly and unexpectedly on the Evil Twin Cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, because of sexual promiscuousness. Our world has descended to that sorry state now and, unless you're stupid and ignorant, the inevitable judgment of the Sovereign Lord God Almighty is around the corner. Our Lord Jesus Christ, the Great Judge gave us a head up on this thus: "As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. (WARNING) For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark; and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man," (Matthew 24:37-39).
In our last two column articles, the Holy Spirit illuminated our hearts on sexual indecencies and the demons associated with them. We want to look at the spiritual clues a born-again Christian can look out for in a spouse sexually cheating, sexually unfaithful and the demons operating in Christian marriages. You can apply these signs to your marital relationship and discuss with your partner the need for spiritual deliverance. Its possible many Christians may not realize the causality between these signs and sexual demons and have been frustrated in treating such "sexual diseases."
Sexual Frustration: -
Most Christians do not realize the first goal of sexual demons is to make the lives of their hosts/hostesses miserable. After all, hasn't the Sovereign Lord God Almighty declared thus in Isaiah 48:22: "There will be no peace and rest for the wicked." Anytime you're making love to your wife or husband, and can't be fulfilled, but something inside you is pushing you out of your matrimonial home to have more sex outside, you're demon-infested. As I have said here before, a child of the Living God cannot be demonically-possessed, but born-again Christians can be demonically-harassed, and peripherally attacked. The Holy Bible commanded in I Corinthians 7: 1-5: "Now for the matters you wrote about: "It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman." But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." If you're constantly feeling the urge to have sexual relations with other men or women after making love to your wife/husband and go ahead with the temptation and later begin to regret it, this is the first sign that you have demons inside you. The solution is more than prayer. It is also a sign that one of you is cheating on each other; either you are cheating on your spouse or your spouse is cheating on you. It is dangerous for Christian couples to keep quiet and pretend everything is fine. If the Lord Jesus Christ appears suddenly, you and your souse will not make it to heaven. Seek help now!
Sexual Annoyance: -
Do you feel annoyed either at yourself or partner as soon as you make love to your wife/husband and hate yourself? Here is the scenario for the husband as set up by the demons; you are expectant and highly boisterous as you prepare to make love to your Christian partner, then the whole thing doesn't last a nanosecond; sexual therapists call it premature ejaculation. You read all kinds of ads as cures, but for the spiritually knowledgeable soul, it has spiritual origin. Many Christian couples have been going through these sexual frustrations and annoyances in their marital lives that they have given up. Many aren't cheating on their spouses and really want to live decent and loving marital lives, but have forgotten Galatians 6:7-8; "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction…" Using libido-enhancing drugs aren't the anti-dotes; you are merely switching from one spiritual demonic-control unto another. Its spiritual and it must be dealt with spiritually. Most churches aren't teaching these stuff, because they think it is a no-go-area, but precious souls are suffering silently with nowhere to turn to. The result most often times is; mega-frustration.
Lack of Sexual Satisfaction:
Satan and his demons know how to ambush the human thoughts. No wonder, the Bible warns us: "The weapons of our warfare are not the weapons of the world. Instead, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." (2 Corinthians 10:4-5). Most Christians still do not understand how the enemies use that verse to befuddle and confuse the mind. A brother explained his lack of sexual satisfaction with his wife and the Holy Spirit showed us the events leading up to his first adulterous affairs with a neighbor. The wife was busy and couldn't make love as she worked night shift. He was in the living room watching a movie and the demon of lust whispered unto his ears: "See what you're missing in a woman, this woman was not your real wife in the first place. You deserve a better woman." Have you noticed every woman on television is always pretty and gorgeous? "Wao! That is a woman I should have married or someone like her," do you sometimes mutter? As he began to meditate on those words, a lady neighbor knocked to ask of his wife, who is her friend. She too was alone at home as her husband does the "grave yard shift" as we say in America. One thing led to the other and the rest is history.
Satan and his demons haven't changed a bit. The same playbook they used on King David and Bathsheba has only been updated and dusted up, but the protocols remain basically the same. Do you realize that the woman or man you are cheating with feels more enjoyable than your own spouse? Not really, it only feels so, because Satan and his demons have convinced you when you neglected the warning and admonition in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 scripture above the first time they played it on your mind. If you think you can be sexually satisfied by any woman, man or through sex, you're sorely mistaken, because, as our Lord Jesus Christ told that woman in Sychar:
"Everyone who drinks of this water will thirst again;…"(John 4: 13-14). Get it right here and now; there is nothing on earth created by the True Lord God Almighty to give any human being satisfaction: money, fame, power, sex etc. Everything He has created is for His pleasure, and in Him and only in Him there is joy and gladness of heart, period. (Psalm 16:11).
Inability to pray Together: A sister called me for spiritual counseling. I told her she should bring her husband on the phone, but she told me they were quarreling. "How can you have the fruit of the womb, when you need your husband's water? I asked her. A sister called us in North America complaining about lack of progress in the ministry that the Lord has called her. As I was about to pray for her, the Holy Spirit told me to ask her what was her relationship with her husband. The Ture Lord God Almighty is a God of Order and He would never and has never circumvented the chain of authority He laid down in His Word; the Holy Bible. Most of the issues and problems many Christians go through are caused by disobedience to the Word of God. Any home where the husband and wife cannot pray together is not a Christian home, period! I am not talking about crises-induced prayers; everything is about to fall apart and suddenly, you both remember to pray together. I am talking of daily habit of praying together. Most of the things I see as a child and prophet of the Living God are always confirmed by my wife. Amos told us plainly: "Two cannot walk together unless they have agreed to do so," (Amos 3:3). If you and your spouse cannot hold hands daily and regularly to pray together on all issues of life and any matter under heaven, one of you is unfaithful.
Sexual Whiplash: - Satan and his demons prey on the Christian mind majorly, because of ignorance of how the spirit world operates vis-à-vis the human soul. For those that have read the book: "The Kingdom of Satan Exposed," we explained through the Holy Spirit the seven different levels of the human soul. When you're about to make love to your husband or wife, and suddenly, the sexual pictures or scenes of your former girlfriends or boyfriends scream across your mind like motion pictures? Demons are at work before, during and after such sexual encounters. As I have explained in this column in the past, demonic doorways remain open, even after conversion. Deal with this by closing those demonic dorways, but not with mere prayers.
Envy, Anger and Hatred: - These are the mannerisms of spiritual forces; fallen angels that sow discord in Christian homes. Anytime you feel like quitting your matrimonial home, each time you remember your spouse's past infidelity, hurts, maltreatment, abuse etc.; you're ceding a toehold to demonic forces. That is why we are warned as redeemed children of the Living God: "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32). But before this admonition, Apostle Paul warned us in the verse preceding this admonition thus in Ephesians 4:31: "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice." Do you see the progression demons of envy, anger and hatred take to meet their associates of slander, malice and unforgiveness? A sister has been married thrice here in North America because of these sins. When she called us here at The Jesus Christ Solution Center for prayer and counseling, the Holy Spirit gave us this full picture. Not only will these demons continue to destroy the sister's marital life, but will prevent her from entering into paradise. Any Christian home and family where you hear words and phrases like this all the time from either partner: "Remember, you did this and that, or blah, blah" is on borrowed times. In Isaiah 43:18-19, the Lord God Almighty warned us: "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. Behold, I will do something new, Now it will spring forth; Will you not be aware of it?." A husband or wife that neglects this exhortation and command can never enjoy marital bliss and the fullness of God's joy.
Fights, Quarrels and Squabble: - I hear it from even redeemed children of the Sovereign Lord Jesus Christ that fights and quarrels are inevitable in marital relationship. That is a lie from the pit of hell. I am not talking of misunderstanding and arguments, because the early apostles argued and had serious fundamental misunderstandings. Apostle Paul and Apostle Peter had heated arguments in Galatia over circumcision of Gentile believers. Paul told us in Galatia 2:11: "But when Peter came to Antioch, I had to oppose him to his face, for what he did was very wrong." (NLT). As a matter of fact, serious fundamental disagreements on all matters under heaven are healthy in Bible Classes as Apostle Paul told the Corinthian believers in I Corinthians 11:19: "No doubt there have to be differences among you to show which of you have God's approval." My wife and I argue a lot over the Holy Bible as we reason together in the scriptures during our home Bible Studies. Of course, what do you expect two PhD spouses to do? This practice is indeed healthy. But there are some nonsense fights, unnecessary quarrels and foolish squabbles over inanities that are un-Christian and unspiritual among and between Christian couples. The latter instances are avenue and fodders for demons to "scramble words and conversations."
Many Christians do not know demons do this all the time in marital situations. Have you experienced a situation where what you said was misinterpreted by your spouse and before the words you uttered reach his or her hearings, demons re-jig the words to something else entirely: "That is not what I meant," you begin to protest much later, but your spouse already "heard" those words and interpreted those words the way the demons wanted him or her to decode the words and phrases. "You keep making stupid and foolish mistakes…" a wife blurted out during a heated argument over bad financial decision the husband made. Satan took those words and directed the husband to his wedding album later that day. As the man browsed through the wedding album, he saw how fat and chubby his wife had become after ten years of marriage and the demon whispered into his ears: "You know, you keep making stupid and repeated mistakes all the time, this is not the woman you should have married." The demon of divorce kept hammering those wife's words unto his head that the man believed those words and soon filed for divorce. Never and ever will the Holy Spirit dwell and stay in any environment where it is fights, quarrels and squabble always. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,…against such, there is no law." (Galatians 5:22-23).
TO BE CONCLUDED NEXT WEEK
Season of Migration to the APC: Nigerian politicians are funny bunch of herds. Bereft of sound ideological mooring and completely otiose of public office seeker, they swim along the pendulum. All that matters is self-interest and that is it. The comatose PDP played the same again for sixteen agonizing years until the true children of the Lord put a stop to it at the center. Now, the APC is aping its shrinking PDP. The leaders of the APC will soon be shell-shocked that Nigeria will not go merry-round again, as the true intercessors of the nation will stop the nonsense. This season of migration to the APC will soon stop, because a new party is about to come onto the scene. If the new party and its promoters seek the New Face, a revolution is about to unfold in Nigeria. I mean spiritual revolution that will affect the nation's political future.
Ekiti State 2018: We didn't see a new governor here in 2018 as being expected. All we saw are crises and skirmishes. By the time all is settled, we saw four bulls gorging at each other in effort to drink from the watering can. It was bloody; one horn is bleeding, another leg is limping and one other is prostrate. Suddenly, a lamb from nowhere reaches out to the watering can. If the APC is not careful, a repeat of what happened in Lagos state between Agbalajobi, Sarumi and Otedola in 1992 is discernible in the air. Mr. Opeyemi Bamidele will not govern this state now or soon until he has done certain things. A former governor like the one there now will succeed the outgoing.
This Week's Letters
Dear Dr Moshood Fayemiwo, May God continue to bless and strengthen you, your family and your ministry in Jesus name. I have been reading your column on Nigeriaworld.comfor some years now and indeed say Nigeria and the world at large is truly blessed to have God use you as one of his gatekeepers for Nigeria and the world. May God's grace and light over your ministry continue to wax stronger and stronger. Your prophecies on the last general elections in Nigeria and others prior to and afterwards all came to pass and may the Lord continue to reveal himself to you more and more. Thanks, and be richly blessed in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen---Mr. A.M, Lagos Nigeria.
Thank you for the encouragement. The Lord God Almighty will continue to perfect your ways and all that pertain to you in Christ Jesus Amen.
Dear sir, having read and re-read your extensive and I must say written with attention to detail leaving nothing unaddressed, however the article concludes sexual sins cannot be expunged by prayers alone but I could not find the recipe for deliverance from these sins in your write-up. I would appreciate a clarification on this area or is the write-up yet to be concluded; then I will look forward to it Kind Regards---Mr. Olusegun Iyiola, London, UK.
Yes, it is true that the sexual sins listed in the column cannot be cured by prayers only and if you continue to keep a date with the column every week, you will soon find out what remedies are needed. But more importantly, this is a column article and not a book. There is little we can divulge in a weekly article. Thanks.
Shalom sir. I am new to your column, but am going through your newspaper archives recently. I have observed that you are no doubt a veritable instrument of God Almighty Himself. From every indication, I know you're a genuine man of God and that is why I need your help in overcoming my current life-long spiritual plight. I am battling family witchcraft and familiar spirits. I have suffered a lot all my life in the hands of witches and wizards in my family (both paternal and maternal sides) beginning from my life at an infant age. I am 48 years old and yet unmarried with a wobbling business that is crippled with mounting debts. My education that had a promising start ended long ago at the school certificate level after series of failures in exams. I gave up on education as my failure was not unconnected with a mysterious illness that ravaged my body (in fact my head and brain). I have persistent problem with concentration each time I have a book before me or have any task demanding intellectual commitment. My own biological mother could be the main culprit since I parted ways with her and joined my father who she had earlier-on separated from. I have not seen my family in more than 20 years, yes, it is that so serious). What do I do? ---From K.N. West Africa via email.
I receive many of such email as yours, but one thing I know and for certain is this: "With the True Lord God Almighty, nothing, absolutely nothing shall be impossible." I have replied to your email.
Daodu wrote: "OK. I doubted the last prophecy even after the fulfilment of earlier ones. The David Cameron's prophecy- as I have come to name it. Dr Moshood Fayemiwo said it. Are you surprised I entertained that moment of doubt? After all, I mm human. Now I dissociate myself from the Thomas' anointing :) Indeed a prophet has no honor in his country. #Sunday Confession. The prophecy was eventually fulfilled, but not the way we humans thought it would be fulfilled.
Dr Moshood Ademola Fayemiwo is Chancellor and Provost; The Jesus Christ Solution Center Training School & Bible College in Cameron near Texas which will take-off later this year. He can be reached at [email protected]. His contact number is: 254-605-4035. Website: www.jesuschristsolutioncenter.com